I was praying a while ago and I was reminded (and I have needed reminding) that I need to look in the mirror. Often. When taking control of my thoughts. When engaging with others. When I am picking up the first stone. When I am getting ready to respond.
Immediately the following verse came to mind:
John 8:6-8 – “ This they said to test him, that they might have some charge to bring against him. Jesus bent down and wrote with his finger on the ground. And as they continued to ask him, he stood up and said to them, “Let him who is without sin among you be the first to throw a stone at her.” And once more he bent down and wrote on the ground.”
We all know this piece of scripture. And when we read it, it should hit us straight between the eyes - that it is meant for us, each of us, not others. This isn’t the only place that Jesus calls us to assess ourselves and our heart in our relationships to others. Here is another place (seen in either Matthew or Luke):
Matthew 7:2-4 – “For with the judgment you pronounce you will be judged, and with the measure you use it will be measured to you. Why do you see the speck that is in your brother's eye, but do not notice the log that is in your own eye? Or how can you say to your brother, ‘Let me take the speck out of your eye,’ when there is the log in your own eye?”
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Luke 6:41-42 – “Why do you see the speck that is in your brother's eye, but do not notice the log that is in your own eye? How can you say to your brother, ‘Brother, let me take out the speck that is in your eye,’ when you yourself do not see the log that is in your own eye? You hypocrite, first take the log out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to take out the speck that is in your brother's eye.”
This is not meant to be a guilt trip for you or I. These words of Jesus, this truth from God is meant to stop each of us, to cause me or you to pause in our interactions in the world and look into the mirror. These words from God are meant to make sure our hearts are aligned with Christ.
But we see this so often in our world today, where the culture has left so many people willing to pick up a stone and hurl it without stopping to think about what they are doing. It has left social relationships in shambles.
However to be clear, we are not being told that we cannot share correction or provide critical direction or even discipline to other brothers and sisters. It does mean we need to stop and evaluate what we are going to say and how we are going to share it. We should be making sure our response is a Christ like response.
It may even mean we say nothing and walk away from an interaction. It may be that we turn the other cheek rather than lashing out at others who are abusing us…(see Matthew 5:38-39 – “You have heard that it was said, ‘An eye for an eye and a tooth for a tooth.’ But I say to you, Do not resist the one who is evil. But if anyone slaps you on the right cheek, turn to him the other also.”)
I think in the world today, this is more important than ever.
During your prayer time, has God pointed anything like this out to you?
Lord Jesus, my prayer for each of us as we enter this weekend is that through God’s gifts of grace and mercy in our lives we can pause at the right time in our interactions with brothers and sisters or even other non-believers, look at ourselves and looking to you so we shine your Light in our responses in all our relationships! Amen!
Have a weekend filled with the Peace that comes from knowing our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ,
Patrick
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